Proven Technique: How to Get a Girl’s Phone Number

I personally focused on getting the phone number and, at the same time, I found out that asking for the email address was by far much easier.

Let me explain this: I’ve perfected this art of getting phone numbers many years ago: if a woman is alone, I turn to her and, in less than a minute, I manage to get her phone number. However, I realized later, after working as a crazy scientist to perfect my technique, getting the digits doesn’t represent the mission is complete.

How to Get a Girl’s Phone Number

You see, women have different reasons for giving their phone number

Some seek for attention and they love having a man who always calls them, while others refuse to follow the same technique from the first minutes. The third option is the ones who are really interested, but something else that I have learned throughout my experience is the fact that women act differently on the phone than they are in reality.

When you call a woman for the first time, they are most of the times anxious, nervous and if they don’t like what they hear, they will probably try to ditch you. I found out that getting the email address is not only easier, but you get by far more positive answers than calling her.

Another positive aspect of writing an email is that you have time to think about what you are writing. If you call, you have to be careful and select your words carefully. An email can be written anytime and can be answered at any time. And I realized that emails are receiving much more response than voice mail messages.

Proven Technique for Getting Girl’s Phone Number

Here’s what to do:

After talking to a woman for 3-4 minutes, I always say something like, “Okay, I enjoyed talking to you. I will return to my friends now. They do not know what to do next since they have been accustomed to being the ones who say this.

Then I leave, just to disconnect myself from her, but I get back and ask: “By the way, can I have your phone number?”. Most of the times they say yes and to add an extra drop of mystery, I provide her with a pencil and ask kindly if she writes her number down on a napkin.

However, when it comes to asking their email address, they believe the risk is smaller… so they think, “Okay, I’ll give him my email. What can possibly happen?”.

Meanwhile, in order to create a more relaxed atmosphere make a joke like: “Okay, you can start writing your real number now… I will not call you more than nine times a day”, they laugh and the mission is almost complete.

Remember, all you have to do is ask!

Like I said, I tried all kinds of stuff.

My friends ask me: “But what do I say if she asks me <<why>>?”

They never asked me “why”.

If you do this every time, ask for her number in a calm and responsible way, you will get a lot of emails and numbers.

Note: always carry a pen.

How to Kiss: Best Techniques & Tips to Kiss

You just spent the most enchanting and romantic date with your partner and realized it’s time to take her home. Your hands becme sweaty on the steering wheel as you get closer and closer to her street.

The engine stops, she flips over and smiles like she would expect something. All sorts of questions related to your first date go through your mind right now and everything basically resumed to:

“Should I kiss her in the car or on the doorstep?” or “What happens if I turn my cheek, just like I did with the last girl who tried to kiss me?”

Cheer Up!

The only thought you should keep in your mind right now is: “There’s only going to be one first kiss, so make it memorable!”. Otherwise… trust me, you are not going to benefit from a second date.

On the other hand, you don’t have to feel forced to respond to her signals, which in my personal opinion, means that you’re not that into her but you haven’t realized it yet.

How to Kiss: Best Techniques & Tips to Kiss

However, if you’re convinced that you are really into her but you’re still torn when it comes to the kissing part, you must know that postponing this might be labelled as “offensive” and it might influence the faith of whatever is happening between you guys.

Until you get yourself together and decide where is this going, here are some fun tips on how to nail the “first kiss” mission.

Notice Signals

Notice if your partner wants it or not. The most common signs are those innocent flirts, discreet touches and so on. Note that: Women will never touch a man if she doesn’t feel attracted to him.

  • The Chewing Gum Trick

She offered you chewing gum while she is walking you at home. If this happens, a kiss is being anticipated for sure. Meanwhile, she is still trying to establish a visual contact. If your eyes are the window to someone’s soul and she’s still looking at you, it’s time to get busy.

  • The Kissing “Guide”

Take it easy and don’t look at this as a challenge. Relax and let things to unfold naturally.

Women are always nervous when it comes to these moments because it’s in their nature and they want you to take control.

What happens if she doesn’t want to be kissed?

Apologize and thank her for a great evening. The apology part will represent a “plus” for your because she will start to feel bad about herself. Meanwhile, your apology will be interpreted as a sign of honesty and respect and you will also prove her that you are not that desperate about her. Laugh about this and make a joke about it in order to create a more relaxing vibe.

Intimacy?

Intimacy is a place that we all want to reach when it comes to becoming infatuated with someone. When I am talking about this, I am not just referring to the physical part, but to that emotional side.

What does this “emotional side” have to do with kissing?. Well a lot because kissing is basically an intimate act which unfolds between two persons who are into each other.

The “Kissing Technique”

  1. Moisten your lips.
  2. Start by kissing gently before you go through with the “French kissing” part.
  3. Don’t make annoying noises. It will distract your partner in a negative way and it will ruin the moment.
  4. Don’t be rough: if you’re going to kiss her slowly, you will allow her to back off in case she doesn’t feel comfortable.
  5. Don’t exaggerate with saliva: it’s just gross.
  6. Last but not Least: don’t forget to breathe from time to time.

How to Make a Woman Laugh

If you’re a guy, you’ve probably heard this on sooo many times: “Make her laugh and she will love you!”

Women love a good sense of humor and those guys who are exactly the silliest persons on Earth, are like: “Man, I don’t know how to make this chick laugh. What am I? A clown? I am authentic when it comes to women. I don’t need this sh*it”.

In reality, these guys have no clue that making a woman laugh is the simplest way of sneaking into her heart and it’s also the easiest method of creating a more relaxed atmosphere.

For those guys who have no clue on how to make a girl laugh until she drops, there is a lot of confusion when it comes to linking humor to broads and we are here to make some light.

How to Make a Woman Laugh

First of all, you should always be yourself but with a slight dose of politeness when it comes to speaking to a woman because by being natural you might also have a huge potential of making a girl laugh without having no idea about it.

Girls love laughing and non-sexual jokes are always more welcomed than those which tend to transform a conversation into something gross. Regardless of where you are, I want to give you some crucial tips when it comes to making a girl laugh because of humor, my friend is a lethal weapon when it comes to the ladies.

  • SECRET #1: LISTEN CAREFULLY

Exactly, being careful is one of the most important things. The better anchored in reality, the more you see opportunities everywhere to make jokes.

See … if you’re only careful about 50% of the time, you will make good but not extraordinary jokes. That’s because the joke depends very hard on the context more than anything else.

That’s why it’s important to take into account the following:

  • The girl you are talking to.
  • The place you are in

No detail is too insignificant to go unnoticed when it comes to making a girl smile.

  • Secret #2: Also “Target” Other People

I’m referring here to the fact that it’s often easy to make fun of just one girl because you might end up to the point where all the attraction is lost.

It’s normal at first when you discover what a strong weapon humor is, and you do not know when to stop. In order to avoid the girl to feel threatened by your sense of humor, you have to learn to make fun of other people

Making fun of other people can be very exciting, especially if you just met them because it will help you to break the ice easier.

A study has proved that humor is one of the most suggestive clues when it comes to a man’s intelligence.

Many women consider intelligence to be attractive, both consciously and subconsciously, as a sign of the man’s ability to maintain a family on long-term.

The British research has shown that only good jokes, which are really tasted by women, have the desired effect.