Flirting is just another (simple and fun) method through which two people socialize and… more. Although flirting itself is very simple, when it comes to the intentions that lie beneath and its signals, things become a little more complicated. Misunderstanding or misinterpretation of signs can lead to some embarrassing situations, so it’s important to understand how flirting works and what the real signals are.

Therefore, to understand how it works and to get the best results, you should follow the tips listed in this article.

How to Flirt with Girl/ Boy

1. Smile

If you start a conversation with the one that you like and realize that you enjoy his/her company, most likely, smiling will interfere with an automatic and natural response.

In addition, a person who smiles is obviously more appealing than a person who is always frowned. Not just that, but the smiles will de-stress the atmosphere and turn it into a pleasant and peaceful one. So, for the flirting process to become successful when your partner smiles, you should make eye contact and smile back.

If you look into his eyes and want to feel that spark, add a smile for more charm and show your partner that you appreciate your company.

2. Initiate a conversation

Whether you already know the person you are flirting or not, a conversation is always the best way to flirt. In the first phase, to open a conversation, you can make a small observation about where you are or the event you are attending.

What you say does not necessarily be important or profound because, after all, it’s just a pretext to flirt. If you already know the person you want to flirt with, open a conversation based on something that you both like or a shared experience from your past.

3. Take care!

The way your potential conversation partner responds it’s extremely important, so be careful about the expression, voice, and gesture of the conversation.

If the person does not answer you, seems to be concerned about something else or seems disinterested, you must accept that she or he is simply not interested. Keep a light conversation that does not address topics that are too personal or intimate (such as your former relationships, your religion, or your financial status).

4. Use body language

Non-verbal details can reveal much more about what you feel than words can do, so make sure your intention is being expressed by posture and gestures.

5. Do not cross your hands or legs

Such a posture generally indicates that you want to isolate yourself from the conversation partner and that you are not interested in it or what it says.

6. Look into her/ his eyes

It is preferable to stand face to face with your flirting partner. If circumstances do not allow you, just make sure you stay a little bit closer to her.

If you are convinced that everything is going well and that your partner is interested in you, you can even overcome the physical barrier with small touches.

4. Make compliments!

Trust yourself and keep eye contact when you offer a compliment. If you look elsewhere and avoid (even accidentally) looking at your partner when you compliment him, you will feel like you are not honest.

Take care what compliments you do, especially if they refer to physical aspects!

A woman, for example, will appreciate if you compliment her eyes, but she may be disturbed if you tell her (too early) that she has a beautiful body. If you want to have no problems, compliment the partner’s accessories, think about it, make decisions in certain situations, or if you want to refer to the physical, offer compliments to the eyes, the smile or the hair of the conversation partner.

5. Make sure you give 100%

If, until now, flirting has been successful and you want to know this person better, then it is time to go to the next step: dating.

Suggest an event or meeting where you think the partner would like to take part.

To receive an affirmative answer, be honest, trust yourself and do not hesitate!

Shyness can be, more or less, sexy but you know that saying: “Less is more”!

A shy guy might seem attractive because in some sort of way he might seem mysterious, because in the end, the less you talk about yourself, the more mysterious you look.

In reality, women like to determine these “mysterious” guys to talk about themselves, because they believe that behind that shady personality there is a wild “beast” waiting to unleash.

How To Approach Women if You Are Shy

Unlike other types of men, the shy type is different from the mere fact that he is a good guy

In contrast to other fellows who only care about themselves and their pleasures, the shy guy will never stand out with anything, no matter if we’re talking about positive or negative things.

He is the kind who worries about everything, ending up becoming a pessimist and even a paranoid

• The shy will never make the first step when it comes to picking up chicks:
• He is not a sociable person and hates those fancy places where the music is super loud.
• He hates talking about himself and if you don’t have the patience to start shedding those leaves, you should probably give up.
• On the other hand, the shy guy is most of the times governed by doubt and lack of self-confidence.
• If by chance, you find yourself in my story, you should definitely check out this |SUPER COOL| Flirting Guide provided by a couple of experienced women when it comes to shy guys.

• Be Confident – Although this totally sounds like a cliché, self-confidence is everything when it comes to starting a conversation. We all know this will not come naturally all the time but you must make some efforts in order to break the ice. This is super crucial in a world dominated by ladies. Drink that shot to achieve that extra-boost of bravery.
• Don’t be afraid of REJECTION – If you’re afraid of being rejected, you will be afraid of doing this all the time. Just do it because, in the end, you have nothing to lose and stop thinking about those haunting questions. Don’t think too much and stop intoxicating your mind with nonsense: Just Do It!
  The fact that ladies love a funny guy it’s not exactly a secret. You know that a good sense of humor will always loosen up the atmosphere and nothing compares with the ability to make a woman feel good in your company.
• Listen! – Show that you are really interested in whatever she is bumbling at the table. Ask questions and listen to her responses. Show that you are willing to open in front of her and ask for advice if it’s the case. However, be careful and don’t play the fool too much because she might not like this.
• Win her friends – If she is with a group, try to speak with her girlfriends too and make them laugh. Friends approval is crucial when it comes to girls. If her girls are not that into you, you’re screwed!
• Don’t hesitate to ask for her number: If everything went smooth, you have no reason to fear. Tell her that you had a great time and you would love to continue the conversation at dinner.