Flirting is just another (simple and fun) method through which two people socialize and… more. Although flirting itself is very simple, when it comes to the intentions that lie beneath and its signals, things become a little more complicated. Misunderstanding or misinterpretation of signs can lead to some embarrassing situations, so it’s important to understand how flirting works and what the real signals are.
Therefore, to understand how it works and to get the best results, you should follow the tips listed in this article.
How to Flirt with Girl/ Boy
If you start a conversation with the one that you like and realize that you enjoy his/her company, most likely, smiling will interfere with an automatic and natural response.
In addition, a person who smiles is obviously more appealing than a person who is always frowned. Not just that, but the smiles will de-stress the atmosphere and turn it into a pleasant and peaceful one. So, for the flirting process to become successful when your partner smiles, you should make eye contact and smile back.
If you look into his eyes and want to feel that spark, add a smile for more charm and show your partner that you appreciate your company.
- Initiate a conversation
Whether you already know the person you are flirting or not, a conversation is always the best way to flirt. In the first phase, to open a conversation, you can make a small observation about where you are or the event you are attending.
What you say does not necessarily be important or profound because, after all, it’s just a pretext to flirt. If you already know the person you want to flirt with, open a conversation based on something that you both like or a shared experience from your past.
- Take care!
The way your potential conversation partner responds it’s extremely important, so be careful about the expression, voice, and gesture of the conversation.
If the person does not answer you, seems to be concerned about something else or seems disinterested, you must accept that she or he is simply not interested. Keep a light conversation that does not address topics that are too personal or intimate (such as your former relationships, your religion, or your financial status).
- Use body language
Non-verbal details can reveal much more about what you feel than words can do, so make sure your intention is being expressed by posture and gestures.
- Do not cross your hands or legs
Such a posture generally indicates that you want to isolate yourself from the conversation partner and that you are not interested in it or what it says.
- Look into her/ his eyes
It is preferable to stand face to face with your flirting partner. If circumstances do not allow you, just make sure you stay a little bit closer to her.
If you are convinced that everything is going well and that your partner is interested in you, you can even overcome the physical barrier with small touches.
- Make compliments!
Trust yourself and keep eye contact when you offer a compliment. If you look elsewhere and avoid (even accidentally) looking at your partner when you compliment him, you will feel like you are not honest.
Take care what compliments you do, especially if they refer to physical aspects!
A woman, for example, will appreciate if you compliment her eyes, but she may be disturbed if you tell her (too early) that she has a beautiful body. If you want to have no problems, compliment the partner’s accessories, think about it, make decisions in certain situations, or if you want to refer to the physical, offer compliments to the eyes, the smile or the hair of the conversation partner.
- Make sure you give 100%
If, until now, flirting has been successful and you want to know this person better, then it is time to go to the next step: dating.
Suggest an event or meeting where you think the partner would like to take part.
To receive an affirmative answer, be honest, trust yourself and do not hesitate!