If you finally have decided to confess your love to your secret crush, although he or she does not know you so well or he/she simply sees you as one of her buddies, you must choose the right time and place.
Take the risk of rejection and learn how to confess your love/infatuation in a proper way, because if you do it the right way, you might be surprised by the results.
When it comes to women, you have to know they basically possess the ability to figure out if a man can become a suitable partner or it’s better for her to just stay friends. So, you don’t really have much time or resources to prove her that you are the right person or not, because if the feeling is not mutual from the beginning, she will know.
That’s why you have to learn how to increase your chances of getting a positive response and tell her what she really wants to hear.
Best Ways to Confess your Love to your Crush
The first step is to figure out why you really like him/ her. Maybe for you, it’s not that important, but specially women love asking: “Yes, what do you like about me?” and it might happen right before you tell her the truth, so you must be prepared.
Your attitude is very important
Self-confidence and optimism can become huge assets. However, don’t let that self-confidence turn into arrogance.
Carefully chose the moment and the place
The moment you choose to reveal your feelings is just as important as the way you decide to do it. Such a confession must be private and choose a moment when you guys are alone when he/ she is not hurrying to get somewhere else.
Be careful and notice his/ her mood and don’t do it if she is sad or nervous because the outcome will not be favorable. Choose a moment where you can talk in peace, just like you do it when you guys were just buddies.
In order to become a couple, in the first place, he or she must notice that you exist
So, my advice would be that before you make your big confession, make sure you have overcome the “invisible” stage because the chances he/she might like you become increased if you drew a little bit of positive attention.
This does not mean that you have to shake your head to impress it because this can turn against you. Give him/ her a funny reply or ask questions about trivial issues such as his/ her favorite bands.
If you are already friends and overcome the previous stage, then perhaps the main problem is that he/she does not even think that you could ever be more than friend. In this case, you have to show subtly that beyond your friend, you can be a great life partner.
The Question that often comes in one’s mind is that “I don’t know how to express my feelings”.
Shyness or fear of being rejected can paralyze someone, especially when they are trying to talk about their real feelings. In addition, while you are scared to take the next step, you are also worried that someone might step up and take the shot right in front of you because you are too afraid to do it.
Although the shortest path is the best when it comes to these situations, you don’t want to scare her or him away. That’s because if you give someone something you do not expect at all, his reaction will be spontaneous, caused by astonishment, and he will not really analyze what you said.
It is best to give him time to become accustomed to the idea, to imagine how it will be, to know you, so to gradually show him that you like him/her and not to communicate directly.