How to Make a Long-Distance Relationship Work

Almost everyone had, at one point, a long-distance relationship so, you guys must know, these relationships tend to not last, even though they seem so exciting and promising at first.

Why is that so?

What is the reason why some of these relationships don’t last for more than a few weeks, while others turn into engagements and even marriages? Long-distance relationships have both drawbacks and advantages: for some people, distance means the ability to evolve at your own pace.

How to Make a Long-Distance Relationship Work

As for the disadvantages, it is obvious: it is frustrating not to have as much intimacy as you want or not to touch that person whenever you need it.

On the other hand, these disadvantages compensate in a way: it is less quantitative but more qualitative and your meetings will be much more intense than if you were seeing each other each and every day.

  1. Future plans

You need to know where this is heading and if there’s a light at the end of the tunnel. In case you plan on getting married or starting a family, there are two options: either you move with him, either he moves in with you.

  1. Regular get-togethers

Once a month, at least. Plan your appointments in advance and set up some nice activities: go to a nice place, visit museums, cities. Transform these encounters into special little holidays.

  1. Use technology to maintain your relationship healthily

E-mail, Skype, Yahoo Messenger and other messaging services – benefit from the fact that you live in the third millennium.

  1. Take a free day when you’re upset

The lack of physical interaction can sometimes become very frustrating. Instead of burying all your frustration, take a break from the texting and Skype conferences routine.

This is something momentary and it’s mostly caused by the fact that you are sick of communicating through all these means but without seeing each other in person.

  1. Don’t become jealous!

If you trust him/her, you must know that your partner will never cheat on you and this is all in your head. Being jealous while you’re involved in a long-distance relationship is not the best combination. Maybe this is not even for your, but you haven’t realized it yet.

  1. Avoid “dangerous” situations!

Trust is essential in these situations. If you trust your partner and your relationship, then you can freely enjoy your freedom. But you must know that there are limits: you cannot see other men or women if you ask for faithfulness in return.

  1. Do not lose your faith

Many will tell you that long-distance relationships do not work, especially those who have had unpleasant experiences. Do not listen to them, because no one knows better than you what you really want in a partner.

  1. Always be positive!

If you are always suspicious and untrustworthy, you tend to misinterpret every word and generate small scandals, which it will only damage your relationship.

Why Do Girls Like Bad Boys? Secrets Revealed!

Well, You must be thinking why are bad boys considered attractive and hot by most girls?. So, this is a mystery which I will try to solve myself now, because honestly I am not familiar with the reason or the “causes” of this phenomenon either.

However, one thing I know for sure: we all love these bastards, including myself and if you want to talk about reasons, the conclusion is something that, in the back of your head, you probably are aware of, but you haven’t realized it yet.

The thing is no girls want a “puppy” as a boyfriend or husband because if I would’ve wanted a dog, I could’ve just bought one. Girls dream about this rebel, rock star-looking fellow who defies all social rules just to show his testosterone, an alpha male!

Why Do Girls Like Bad Boys?

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Because girls are not into easy fights, they just want to choose the rockier path, they want to struggle while the bad guy it’s making everything even more difficult. Only then, girls can admit they had it.

When it comes to nice guys, the situation it’s exactly the opposite: these want a serious relationship right from the beginning.

They mind their own business, they are careful and genuinely interested in you, they don’t arrive home late without red lipstick on their collar.

So, my point this: where’s the thrill?

Well, the thrill simply does not exist and their extremely bored girlfriends end up, most of the times, becoming the bad guy themselves and by that, I’m talking about: cheating, lying and looking for more exciting things to do.

Most times, these girls do everything listed above with a bad boy.

However, after everything is being exposed, these ladies end up alone, in tears, dressed in Hello Kitty pajamas while engorging ice cream.

So, my advice is: don’t be a good or bad girl

Be a smart girl. Choose a good boy from the start, instead of choosing a rock star and spend the rest of your life fighting with your wild stallion, struggling to convince him to get his life together.

So, what’s the problem here? Have we formed a wrong idea on how a REAL MAN should be/look?

  • Bad guys are confident and bossy: they know exactly who they are and they don’t care about others people’s opinion. They are true and confident, feature labelled by most women as very sexy. Bad boys don’t have to look like supermodels. Some may look strange and women still find it attractive.
  • For most women, a bad guy is a challenge: we all like challenges, mostly the female side. Women will overcome any obstacles and will make great efforts to solve the “mystery”.
  • Women are constantly trying to change a man: it’s in their nature!
  • Women are attracted to the idea that a bad boy can be changed. Even though this will never happen, a woman will always try because he will eventually become an important part of their life. Good boys are already perfect and should not be “repaired”, which is boring.
  • Bad guys are interesting, they do interesting things
  • If you do everything by the rules and let others tell you what to do, you will inevitably become boring. Things are never boring when you are in the company of such a fellow.
  • Bad guys will never allow anyone to mess with them.
  • Many women say they do not like conflicts, but this is not true. In the back of their head, every single woman walking on this Earth will be happy to know their boyfriend is willing to start a fight just to protect her at any time.